Women’s Orgasms
Women’s Orgasms
Women’s Orgasms
The questions surrounding women’s orgasms and how to achieved them.
Many men have misconceptions, believing that sexual intercourse is the way for a women to reach orgasm, sadly this isn’t the case as approximately, only 18% of women can achieve an orgasm this way.
A women’s body needs to be stimulated and aroused before penetrating her, giving her a fighting chance to reach orgasm.
No two women’s bodies are built the same, parts of a women’s body will respond to touch differently to another women body making this difficult for a partner to reach their destination.
The key is to take your time exploring her body, travelling from one zone to another and see which areas catapult her to another level.
Keeping in-mind not to rush and it’s important how you touch i.e don’t grab or squeeze and try using your fingertips like a feather to stimulate her nerve ends.
Erogenous zones of the female form can be anywhere on her body, from kissing or nuzzling her neck to touching or licking her nipples, maybe it’s her tummy or the side of her body.
Who know’s, I’m afraid it’s down to trial and error to find the magic honey pot, the area that will send shivers down her spine and turning her insides into a volcano waiting to erupt, but also having a lot of fun along the way.
A women’s V-JJ
Going South
In most cases, once you have awoken her body it’s time to travel south, again using a gentle touch, you will discover once more, no two women’s vjj’s are the same.
It’s always good to understand whats bits to play with first but always tack your time as her body needs time to catchup.
A few suggestions
- Start by tracing her out lips (labia Majora) first, again slowly and the anticipation for her could be enormous.
- Now start to trace her inner lips (Labia Minora) the same as above.
- With both thumbs applying a gentle pressure in circular motions up and down her outer lips.
- Now to touch her clitoris, remembering each women’s body is different, you will need to discover where on the clitoris gives her the most please i.e above, direct or below. once you’ve found her spot then repartition of movement in the same vain can achieve orgasm at this stage.
- Entering her vjj, at this point she will be moist allowing your finger to slide gentle inside her. In a lot of cases, men assume he should vigorously move his finger in and out but again all women are different. I would advise you slide your finger in and keep still initially and then slowly use your finger to gentle explore the inside of her. This will be very exciting for her.
- Now you have explored her vjj inside, by touch you will be trying to locate the infamous G spot, normally found 2 to 3 inch inside her vjj and on the front wall (positioning towards her bellybutton). You won’t feel a special part of her anatomy as nothing protrudes. Don’t use pressure just pretend you are trying to tickle with a beckoning motion of your finger.
What is the G spot?
I think we have all heard of the G spot, along with how it’s the “key” to achieving an earth-shattering vaginal orgasm. But is this a fact? It’s not straight forward.
The G spot was introduced by Dr. Beverly Whipple after she discovered that using a “come here” (finger beckoning) motion along the inside of the vagina stimulated a response in women. She believed that this region could be the key to women achieving orgasm during sex.
This region varies from woman to woman hence being difficult to locate. Once it’s stimulated, the G spot can cause female ejaculation (yes, it’s real) and can help women reach vaginal orgasm.
Setting the mood
There are lots of things that can help a women along the path to orgasm, for example setting the mood of the room can help and because all women are different only some of these suggestions may help.
- Candle lit room – helping her to relax and feel sexy
- Making sure you are clean – not smelling of body odour
- Some women like to see there partner in nice underwear
- Introducing lubes or edible saucers i.e chocolate
- How about a vibrator or a clitoris stimulater
- Background music
- maybe a glass of wine or bubbles
- Relaxing in a bubble bath, maybe together before you play
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After the sensual discovery of a women’s body, now would be the perfect time to penetrate her. She is aroused, stimulated, excited and her vjj is wet from play and she is now ready to receive you inside her.
For a women to achieve vaginal orgasm, again, this is trial and error because she will need to discover what position stimulates her internally enough to achieve vagina orgasm.
Sexual Position to try an achieve vagina orgasm
- Doggy style – this might work as your penis will have the chance to rub against her front wall if the height is right
- Cow girl – with this position she is in control and can move in ways that feel good
- Closed missionary – her laying on her back with legs closed.
- Closed missionary on top – she lays facing you on top and does all the work.
Helping a women to achieve orgasm can be a mine field, lot’s of women feel the need to fake an orgasm because they don’t want their partner to be disappointed.
The truth is, the majority of men do not really understand how a women’s body works, after all, her vjj doesn’t come with an instruction manual and she also needs to discover what works for her.
Hopefully this post has enlightened a few of you out there.
I have tried to write this post in layman’s terms to give you all a fighting chance and to have fun in the process.
I wish you all much pleasure and fun on your road to discovery and remembering to take your time and not rush…
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As always take care of you and yours,
Sue x
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