Sue’s Agony Posts 11
Sue’s Agony Posts 11
Sue’s Agony Posts are back
Hello my lovely readers
I’m back with another question for Sue’s Agony Posts, Please keep your questions coming as I really enjoy trying to help where I can and it doesn’t matter what question you have, they are all welcome.
This is completely anonymous and all you need to do is send me your question via email to [email protected] signing it with a username of your choice. I will reply to you through Sue’ Agony Post.
I will endeavour to answer all your questions from my vast worldly experiences of life and if your question is of a type where research is needed, I will do my best to try to discover the right answer for you.
Hi Sue,
I’m so pissed off! sorry just needed to get that off my chest – I confided in a friend a week ago that I have a F**k buddy and that we’ve been seeing each other just for sex for about 3 years.
She was shocked and then started to ask me questions like, who is he? why do I see him just for sex? is he married and why have you not told me before etc etc.
Noway did I tell her who he is but, now she’s telling me I’m so wrong and I could do better and worst of all she’s now judging me, and not in a kind way.
My friend has really hurt me with some of her comments and now I find myself questioning whether to stop the arrangement between myself and my F**k buddy.
Question
The thing is, this arrangement has suited me all this time because I am not ready to be emotionally involved with anyone at the moment. I’m just trying to get ahead in my career and sex with him is great, uncomplicated and gives me what I need right now.
Sue please can you give me some advice from a women to a women.
Thanks lucyloo69
Answer
Hi Lucyloo69
Thank you for your email Lucyloo69 and I will do my best to answer your question.
My gut feeling is, you’re not alone in your situation. There are many people doing exactly what you are doing because like you said, “your not ready for a relationship and its uncomplicated ” .
As humans we all have desires and sex is one of them…
This situation, I believe is better than grabbing a one-night stand here and there to dilute your sexual cravings and whether your are a woman or a man, we all have them.
With a F**k buddy we are able to be who we really are and say what we really want without worrying if we have hurt or offended the other, which isn’t always easy in a loving relationship.
Most people who enter into this arrangement normally find that sex is amazing because it’s a journey of discovery and we explore different connotations allowing us to decide what we really like and need during sex.
Having a F**k buddy isn’t for everyone, especially for those who are looking for commitment or love, these just don’t go hand in hand and statistics say that a F**k buddy arrangement normally last on average approximately 2 years.
With all that said and done, your friend isn’t being a true friend! she has and nobody has the right to judge you for the way you choose to live your life as long as it’s legal and no one is getting hurt. No one is perfect and she probably has a few skeletons of her own!
I say to you Lucyloo69, Your f**k buddy arrangement has obviously been working for you for a number of years so, embrace it, enjoy it for what it is and continue to have fun!
Ignore your friends comments, it’s possible, she is jealous of your successful F**k buddy arrangement as she could not achieve this herself with such a shallow mindset.
Wishing you all the best in your arrangement and may you continue to keep smiling and having fun!
My advise offered is for guidance purposes only
On a serious note, if I can’t offer you an answer, but if needed, I will try to put you in touch with the correct people who may be able to help.
I am not a medical professional and can only advise you from my wealth of life experiences and there has been so many… so for fun, why not ask away and lets see where this takes us.
Do you have a question for Sue’s Agony Posts?
Thanks you for stopping by
As always, take of you and yours
Sue x
Why not take up my offer of complementary advertising?, its all about getting your name out there and my blog reaches many people far and wide. Your advertising requirements will be adhered to at all times and dealt with in a professional manner! Call Sue for a no obligation chat to discus your requirements on 07504937253 or email your copy now.
( you do not need to be a client of mine to advertise)
