Sue’s Agony Posts 19

Sue’s Agony Posts 19

Sue’s Agony Posts 19

Sue’s Agony Posts

Hello my lovely readers,

Thanks to Christina, I’m back with her question. It’s been a while, Im sure there are plenty of you out there who have questions. Go on, send me your questions, I love to help where I can and I don’t judge.

Please keep emailing your questions on an array of topics, they are all welcome.

This is completely anonymous and all you need to do is send me your question via email to signing it with a username of your choice. I will reply to you through Sue’ Agony Posts at my earliest convenience.

I will endeavour to answer all your questions from my vast worldly experiences of life and if your question is of a type where research is needed, I will do my best to try to discover the right answers for you.

Hi Sue,

A fantastic site you have Sue and your Blog is always interesting. I check it every day, never knowing whats in store for me to read, I thoroughly enjoy reading the vast spectrum of topics you mention.

I noticed that you were asking for questions for Sue’s Agony Post and thought I would oblige and maybe get some suggestions in the process.


Im 50 and my husband is 69, yes there is a significant age gape and this has now become a problem for me. Although we love each other very much. I am a woman who would still like sexual contact but my husband isn’t interested anymore. It’s been this way for a number of years. We have talked about this many times so now I respect his wishes and have never strayed. We are affectionate with one another but now it’s more like friends. We have the odd embrace here and there and the odd peck on the cheek which is lovely but I need more, I still need to feel like a woman.

I have been thinking about my situation forever it seems and the need has grown enormously. I will now have to stray from my husband to fulfil my needs as a women. I know I shouldn’t but I need this and don’t want to spend the rest of my life without feeling sexually wanted.

Any help or suggestions would be most appreciated Sue, where do I go from here? I’m not a bad person and I do love my husband with all my heart and would never want to hurt him or leave him.

Christina x


Hi Christina,

Thank you for your very kind comments about my site and for your question. It’s great to hear a ladies comments and wish a few more would come forth. I understand your dilemma, it’s not easy when one side of the couple doesn’t want to engage in sexual activities anymore. You can feel unwanted and undesirable and in-turn, this can knocks your self-confidence. Your question isn’t an easy question to answer but I will do my best.

Yes you do have a larger than normal age gap between you but, this isn’t as uncommon as many people would think.

I actually have a friend who is in her late 60’s and her partner is just over 40 and they have been together for 20 years and are still sexually active. Indeed some women still have sexual desires and needs the same as men. Although, with most women, when they reach a certain age, they are happy not to indulge in sexual activity and if they do its very infrequent.

It sounds like you have thought about this for a long time and you have now succumbed to the idea of finding a man for sexual activity, a (F**k Buddy) in todays language.

All I would say is if you are going down this road, make sure you both have rules and boundaries that your both willing to accept, i.e he’s not sleeping with lot’s of women, it’s a sex thing and never to be anymore than that and that you both respect each others private lives.

I think if I was in your situation, I would choose a man who was married. This way he’s not going to keep calling you or being demanding, he will have as much to lose as you. Discretion must be paramount for both of you and when you leave the encounter, you must leave your thoughts and feeling there and not take them home. Basically you will need to look at this as if you have an itch that must be scratched and no more.

Where to look for such a man, to be honest I don’t know… I have heard that many men who are married sign up to plenty of fish, looking for sexual encounters. Whether they are looking for a one-off encounter or a regular thing this is something you would need to talk them about.

What ever you decide to do, please be mindful of the situation you are walking into and arrange to meet in a public place first.

I wish you luck on your endeavours and please stay safe at all times.


My advise offered is for guidance purposes only

On a serious note, if I can’t offer you an answer, but if needed, I will try to put you in touch with the correct people who may be able to help.

I am not a medical professional and can only advise you from my wealth of life experiences and there has been so many… so for fun, why not ask away and lets see where this takes us.

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Take care of you and yours,

Sue x

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