Thank you for your very kind comments about my site and for your question. It’s great to hear a ladies comments and wish a few more would come forth. I understand your dilemma, it’s not easy when one side of the couple doesn’t want to engage in sexual activities anymore. You can feel unwanted and undesirable and in-turn, this can knocks your self-confidence. Your question isn’t an easy question to answer but I will do my best.
Yes you do have a larger than normal age gap between you but, this isn’t as uncommon as many people would think.
I actually have a friend who is in her late 60’s and her partner is just over 40 and they have been together for 20 years and are still sexually active. Indeed some women still have sexual desires and needs the same as men. Although, with most women, when they reach a certain age, they are happy not to indulge in sexual activity and if they do its very infrequent.
It sounds like you have thought about this for a long time and you have now succumbed to the idea of finding a man for sexual activity, a (F**k Buddy) in todays language.
All I would say is if you are going down this road, make sure you both have rules and boundaries that your both willing to accept, i.e he’s not sleeping with lot’s of women, it’s a sex thing and never to be anymore than that and that you both respect each others private lives.
I think if I was in your situation, I would choose a man who was married. This way he’s not going to keep calling you or being demanding, he will have as much to lose as you. Discretion must be paramount for both of you and when you leave the encounter, you must leave your thoughts and feeling there and not take them home. Basically you will need to look at this as if you have an itch that must be scratched and no more.
Where to look for such a man, to be honest I don’t know… I have heard that many men who are married sign up to plenty of fish, looking for sexual encounters. Whether they are looking for a one-off encounter or a regular thing this is something you would need to talk them about.
What ever you decide to do, please be mindful of the situation you are walking into and arrange to meet in a public place first.
I wish you luck on your endeavours and please stay safe at all times.