Thanks for your question and your kind comment, here are my suggestions for you.
I personally do not know of any ladies offering this service. In a digital age, you will need to find that type of service online and it’s like anything you buy online, buyer beware.
Over the years I have heard all kinds of stories from Gents who have engaged in these services, some good and some not so good. The main not so good is, some ladies are not genuine and will post pictures to entice you only to discover on arrival she isn’t the lady in the picture.
If you’re looking for an unhardened lady from this industry, then my advice would be to call her before making any appointments online. You can usually tell what type of person she will be from the tone of her voice and the the content of her sentences. Ask a few questions to see how she replies.
Be sure to ask before your appointment exactly what to expect, some ladies just want to make you cum as soon as possible and then see will see it as her job is done.
Where to look for ladies offering this service? I don’t know what location you are so, my my suggestion is Adultwork.com They offer an array of ladies selling all kinds of services and pretty much world wide. You just click on local escorts then county to see whats available in your area. Usually there is some kind of feedback that you can read from other peoples experiences.
A word of advice. As you don’t know this lady, I would suggest only taking the bare essentials to the appointment and make sure you take your own condoms. You can never be too careful.
Like anything, be careful and be mindful, not everyone will have your standard of ethics as you.
Good luck and have fun!
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