Thank you for your question and such wonderful comments. Its people like yourself who give me the buzz to carry on, so thank you again.
Ok, your question, well it is different but certainly not uncommon. Many many men whom are straight want to experiment and try something different. A mans prostrate gland (the pleasure zone) is inside their bottoms by a couple of inches or so and penetration will rub this area, and in turn heighten their pleasure.
Have you asked yourself what bothers you about performing this action for your husband? Maybe you could be over thinking it or maybe mentally you have never explored this avenue.
If you’re not 100% against it, then why don’t you get acquainted with one first before you make your mind up. I wouldn’t tell your husband you have one until you have privately had a play with it first, try it on and see how you feel. They come in all kinds of designs and funky colours now. I would go with something bright and unrealistic, If it’s a bright colourful strap-on then you can turn the situation into a playful experience and you just might see it in a different light.
But, if after all that and you decide it’s definitely not for you then you will need to sit down with your husband and be honest and tell him how you feel, that it’s not for you. Im sure once you explain he will understand.
On the other hand, if you decide you are going to give this a go, I would highly recommend buying some anal lube for easier entry and making the experience more enjoyable.
Here are a couple of pictures of the colourful strap-on’s I was talking about. They come with interchangeable didos so you can decide on the length and style you want.
I hope I have helped you in some small way and what ever you decide, i’m sure it will be the right decision.
With much love,