Sue’s Agony Posts 12
Sue’s Agony Posts 12
Sue’s Agony Posts
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Hi Sue,
Gotta ask ya something if ya dont mind. Last Tuesday I got home early and walked in as I do, I called out to the wife and there was no answer but thinking about it, it was probably because the music was playing a bit loud.
I went upstairs and the bedroom door was open a bit and I dont know why I did this, I just had a look through the doorway before I walked in. It’s a good job I did, I saw my wife on the bed naked and another women between her legs.
I was gobsmacked and stood there watching for a while and then crept out of my house and went down the pub because I didn’t know what to do and still don’t.
I didn’t see who the other women was and I haven’t said a word to my wife or anyone but i just gotta tell someone thats why i’m writing this to you.
Our marriage is just the same as it has always been so I don’t feel that theres a problem between us and we still have active sex life, if anything home seems to be a happier place to be these days.
Question
Do you think I should say something to her? if I do then she might say she gonna leave me and I don’t want that and if I’m honest what she did has made me horny every time I think about it and it doesn’t really bother me.
I just wish she had told me she like women cause I feel that if she keeps this from me what else has she not told me. What do ya think Sue?
From Jaywiz3708
Answer
Hi Jaywiz3708
I understand your dilemma, this isn’t a straight forward answer as, only you will know with some certainty how your wife will react if you comfort her.
I’m aware that your mind can be playing games and asking you questions, “has she lied to me before?”, because she didn’t tell you about her lady friend.
Im guessing, that she hasn’t lied to you about anything else and probably the reason she hasn’t told you about her indiscretions with this lady, is, she doesn’t understand it herself or she could be worried about how you would feel and doesn’t want to upset what you both have.
Maybe for your own peace of mind, you should bring up a sexy conversation one evening over a bottle of wine and broach it in certain way, how about starting the conversation by asking her if she has any fantasies?
Don’t mention what you have seen initially and then further into the conversation ask her about woman i.e would see consider another women or does she like women, something along those lines.
Depending on her answer, you could say “how excited this would make you feel” if she was another women, as you have already mentioned that it doesn’t bother you and firm this up with, “you wouldn’t mind her exploring another women”.
This will give her the opening and should give her enough confidence, she probably feels she needs to come clean about her lady friend and the experiences your wife has had.
If your wife knows you are absolutely ok with it and that it excites you at the thought of her with another woman, as much as you say it does, then this should and will make it a lot easier for her to explain her indiscretion and the encounters she has already experienced.
At some point within the conversation, you must also come clean and tell her that you know about the other woman and by accident you have seen her in your bedroom together.
This will put you both back on the same page and from here you can decide together what will work for you both going forward.
Im sure with love, kindness and choosing your words carefully, all will be revealed and just maybe, it will enhance your marriage as you both go forward together.
Good luck and hopefully my thoughts have helped you in someway to achieve some peace of mind.
Wishing you and your wife all the very best for the future.
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