Thank you for reaching out and of course your kind comments. I understand your dilemma and will do my best to advise where I can.
As you will see Carol, I haven’t included all the content of your email above because some of your details, I felt, might not give you complete anonymity and that wouldn’t be right for you.
Where to begin…
Firstly just let me say that I’m glad to hear you have come through your horrific car accident and you are now ready to start a new chapter of your life.
I was saddened to hear that your sexual life has been so boring up to now and I hope you manage to fulfil many quests on your Bucket List.
You sound like a lady who know exactly what she wants and with some careful thought will achieve your outcome. Always on your quest to tick off your list, it should be paramount that your safety must come first!
There are a couple of things I can suggest but you need to ask yourself if you are happy to go down this path by alone or confined in someone so you can take them along for safety etc?
You could join a swingers site. Some people post pictures and description’s of themselves with their likes and dislikes. This would offer you likeminded people to play with and it’s possible you will receive invites to private parties in the future. Don’t be afraid to ask them as many questions as you feel necessary and making sure you are both on the same page.
Here is a link for swingers so you can have a look and see if this is what you would like to try. www.swingingheaven.co.uk
Dogging is another thought but this can be dangerous for a woman by herself. I know you mentioned this in your email as something you wanted to experience. I would recommend if you want to try this then drive to the area and sit in your car with the doors locked and just watch and see how it unfolds. Do this a few times before you take the plunge so you know what to expect. Take a personal alarm with you if you decide to go this path by alone. I wrote a post on this many months ago, I don’t know if you’ve read this or not so I’ve included the link here Dogging
I know you didn’t want to join a dating site to meet people, after some thought this is what i’ve come up with.
One way to hook up with a stranger, although it might be difficult in these trying times is to get dressed up and go and sit in a hotel bar. You would need to choose the hotel wisely, one that catered for men on business trips. I’m sure it wouldn’t be long before you were approached. I would suggest that you make sure your phone is charged and send someone a text telling them where you are. you can always say your on a date.
What ever adventure you choose, please make sure someone knows where you are, invest in a personal alarm, make sure your phone is always charged, you have some cash in your bag and condoms are a must!
I hope my suggestions have given you some ideas on how to tick off a few items on your list. I wish you well and much fun but above all stay safe!